I’ve always seen myself as someone who should not dare fail. Firstly I was raised with the belief that I can do anything that I set my mind into; secondly I came from a family who takes high regards of themselves (mom and dad side); and thirdly I believe that if a person starts one act wrongly and doesn’t correct it immediately it will definitely be repeated over and over again till it reaches the point when it becomes too much or worst: it is for these reasons that I have focused more on a person’s positive trait or his (or her) way of dealing with their mistakes when it comes to dealing with friends or that search for Mr. or Ms. Right.
Clearing things up: I am not choosy, just into particulars; Friends are people who may differ or not from us but has accepted us no matter what and love is something that helps us make the impossibility of changing for the better happen. I have always believed that when it comes to being influenced it is either you change for the better or for the worst and when checking to friendship better knock yourself out giving yourself chance to be influenced by their good trait and correct their mistakes. It’s a give and take relationship that you have also a share in influencing them while they help you grow by correcting your mistake. And as for me and my dare not to fail, well, failure is but a matter of not being able to accept a shortcoming and go worst because of it plus not being able to set a goal for oneself and try to meet them as much as possible; failure is that one part which meant believing that you can’t make a difference and not being able to show the world that you can be the best you (without stepping on someone else) even during background business screening.
To give yourself a chance to be “the best you can be” here are traits a person must develop (and be influenced with by the people around you).
1. Humility. There was once a guy in class that I really liked (back in college). He was smart as he was also appealing, unfortunately he is boastful. It was because of this trait that made me, at one time, have second thoughts about him when he started giving hints that he liked me (girl’s also have that super radar boys—better prepare). This trait came into view during several instances when he was being corrected of an error yet he continuous to show off. It wasn’t long when he seem to back off and I heard news from a common friend that he liked someone but he didn’t dare court her for fear of rejection. In addition he also told our friend the reason why he thought of that: “she doesn’t like boastful guys” he told her.
People, that H-U-M-I-L-I-T-Y actually means admitting one’s fault and sharing one’s strength. When I heard what he said—him admitting his weakness—I saw him differently: he changed.
2. Strong faith. I never really quite get it with regards to people who shift to another religion for the sake of “having a stronger faith”. There may be nothing wrong with changing religion in as much as there is also nothing wrong with staying with the religion a person has grown up with. There was a time however when I thought differently about this concept and accepted the fact that other religion may have stronger faith in God (I am Catholic) until I came across a friend.
He was an acolyte (altar boy) during his high school years. We first met during college years and the way he talks and act speaks of his strong faith. Honestly things got more interesting for me and he inspired me to see that it is up to a person how he can give himself to the Lord by his deeds and by his thoughts.
A dear friend, faith is believing what is yet to be seen and this friend saw the beauty in things may they be good or bad. He has faith that God will definitely turn things around for everybody’s good.
3. Genuineness. Everybody has a hard time in being who they truly are. However many who do also has wrong concepts on this thing. I have this friend who does this perfectly well and has helped me see that being honest sometimes though it may hurt people is the best thing that a person can do for others. You just have to be you without stepping at other people. That’s the right thing to do.
These are but three of the best trait that a person can learn from someone (like I did). Go for this trait with respect and it will equal not just praises but respect. There are still many things to learn and the best way to do this is to go one step at a time primarily by accepting criticisms and loving life. But if you want to make sure, a background check will let you know some information you need.
Clearing things up: I am not choosy, just into particulars; Friends are people who may differ or not from us but has accepted us no matter what and love is something that helps us make the impossibility of changing for the better happen. I have always believed that when it comes to being influenced it is either you change for the better or for the worst and when checking to friendship better knock yourself out giving yourself chance to be influenced by their good trait and correct their mistakes. It’s a give and take relationship that you have also a share in influencing them while they help you grow by correcting your mistake. And as for me and my dare not to fail, well, failure is but a matter of not being able to accept a shortcoming and go worst because of it plus not being able to set a goal for oneself and try to meet them as much as possible; failure is that one part which meant believing that you can’t make a difference and not being able to show the world that you can be the best you (without stepping on someone else) even during background business screening.
To give yourself a chance to be “the best you can be” here are traits a person must develop (and be influenced with by the people around you).
1. Humility. There was once a guy in class that I really liked (back in college). He was smart as he was also appealing, unfortunately he is boastful. It was because of this trait that made me, at one time, have second thoughts about him when he started giving hints that he liked me (girl’s also have that super radar boys—better prepare). This trait came into view during several instances when he was being corrected of an error yet he continuous to show off. It wasn’t long when he seem to back off and I heard news from a common friend that he liked someone but he didn’t dare court her for fear of rejection. In addition he also told our friend the reason why he thought of that: “she doesn’t like boastful guys” he told her.
People, that H-U-M-I-L-I-T-Y actually means admitting one’s fault and sharing one’s strength. When I heard what he said—him admitting his weakness—I saw him differently: he changed.
2. Strong faith. I never really quite get it with regards to people who shift to another religion for the sake of “having a stronger faith”. There may be nothing wrong with changing religion in as much as there is also nothing wrong with staying with the religion a person has grown up with. There was a time however when I thought differently about this concept and accepted the fact that other religion may have stronger faith in God (I am Catholic) until I came across a friend.
He was an acolyte (altar boy) during his high school years. We first met during college years and the way he talks and act speaks of his strong faith. Honestly things got more interesting for me and he inspired me to see that it is up to a person how he can give himself to the Lord by his deeds and by his thoughts.
A dear friend, faith is believing what is yet to be seen and this friend saw the beauty in things may they be good or bad. He has faith that God will definitely turn things around for everybody’s good.
3. Genuineness. Everybody has a hard time in being who they truly are. However many who do also has wrong concepts on this thing. I have this friend who does this perfectly well and has helped me see that being honest sometimes though it may hurt people is the best thing that a person can do for others. You just have to be you without stepping at other people. That’s the right thing to do.
These are but three of the best trait that a person can learn from someone (like I did). Go for this trait with respect and it will equal not just praises but respect. There are still many things to learn and the best way to do this is to go one step at a time primarily by accepting criticisms and loving life. But if you want to make sure, a background check will let you know some information you need.
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